endure three things that people avoid
You can outperform 99% of people if you learn to endure three things that people avoid:
the shame of rejection,
the boredom of repetition,
and the discomfort of honest feedback.
These aren’t obstacles,—they’re the gatekeepers,.
Most people turn back the moment they feel embarrassed, restless, or criticized.
If you don’t, you automatically separate yourself.
Success doesn’t belong to the most talented;
it belongs to the most tolerant.
tolerant of failure, of looking foolish, of being misunderstood. If you’re willing to fail twenty times in a row without quitting, to look inexperienced in front of people whose opinions matter to you, and to keep showing up when the excitement is gone, you’ve already won a rare advantage.
Progress is unglamorous. It’s repeating the same actions long after motivation fades. It’s hearing “no” so often that it loses its sting. It’s using feedback that hurts your ego but sharpens your skill. While others wait for confidence, permission, or perfect timing, you build resilience.
The truth is simple: most people don’t lose because they’re incapable—they lose because they stop when it becomes inconvenient, uncomfortable, or embarrassing. If you can keep going when it’s no longer fun, no longer validating, and no longer noticed, you won’t just beat almost everyone—you’ll outlast them.
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Look, if you keep yapping about what you’re gonna do, you’re never gonna actually do it. Here’s why your brain is playing you:
one,. Talking feels like winning (but it’s a lie). **
When you tell someone your big plans, your brain gets a hit of dopamine—that's the "feel-good" chemical you usually get when you actually finish something. So your brain thinks, *"Cool, we already won,"* and then you lose the drive to actually do the hard work. You're basically tricking yourself into feeling successful while sitting on the couch.
two,. People’s "Good Jobs" kill your hustle. **
When you tell people your ideas and they say, "That’s fire!" or "You got this!", your ego gets fed. You feel satisfied right then and there. Why would you go through the struggle of actually doing it when you already got the praise just by talking?
three.. Talking adds stress, not help. **
Now that you told everyone, you feel like they’re watching you and judging you. That makes you feel tense. Your brain hates feeling stressed, so it makes you procrastinate just to get some relief. You’re not lazy; you’re just overwhelmed because you opened your mouth too soon.
four,. Don't be a "talker," be a "doer."**
You start acting like "the guy who’s starting a business" before you’ve even made a dollar. That’s a trap. Real winners move in silence and let the results do the talking.
**The Real Secret:** i repeat THE Real Secret... ,
Everyone is running on the same "software." They have the same fears and the same habits. Once you learn how people's minds work, you aren't just hanging out with them—you're basically in control. You stop guessing what people will do and start making things happen exactly how you want.
Most people are just walking around blind, reacting to stuff. But once you see the "code," you’re the one running the game. You'll see their patterns and their weaknesses before they even know what's happening.
**Don't stay blind.
The ones who know the secrets run the show. i will have a e book blueprint soon, and all those who are subscribers will get it first.
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The best thing I learned at Harvard University. Think of everything in groups of three. It sounds simple, but it's one of the most effective communication tools you can use, especially if you want people to actually remember what you say. For example, if you want someone to follow your idea or method, you don't dump everything on them at once.
You break it into three clean parts, the opportunity, the risk, and the next step. That structure quietly guides how their brain processes the information. It creates a logical flow that feels natural and easy to follow. Why does this work? Because the brain loves patterns. And three is the sweet spot. One feels incomplete. Two feels unfinished.
Three feels balanced and done. That's why we remember things like mind, body, spirit, or liberty and the pursuit of happiness. It's memorable, it feels organized, and it doesn't overload people. Anytime you can use the rule of three, especially when you clearly name and frame each part, you instantly make your message stronger.
Your ideas sound more confident, more intentional, and more persuasive, even if the content itself is simple.
Here's the interesting part, sometimes you're not actually giving advice, you're creating urgency. When you frame something as what's happening, why it matters, and what to do next, you're subtly pointing out a lack of urgency without directly saying, you're moving too slow. Instead of sounding rude or impatient, the structure does the work for you.
That's the power of good framing. You're not forcing people to agree with you. You're leading their thinking in a way that feels reasonable and hard to argue with. And once you start noticing it, you'll see this technique everywhere. In speeches, marketing, social media, and even good professors' lectures.
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There was a story about a purse salesman in Istanbul in the 1970s. If I recall, I believe his name was Amir, better known as the Purse Man. He was a very successful entrepreneur who owned a whole bunch of women purse stores across Turkey. Later, his model of selling purses was adopted by Hermes. Yeah, the famous luxury Hermes brand.
They were doing a report on him, and the journalist asked him, What's your secret? How did you manage to build so many stores with no loans from the bank? And he said, Two, not three. And the journalist was like, What do you mean? Two, not three. He goes, If a woman comes into my store, I'll bring her out one purse.
She'll look at it and put it on her shoulder. And she'll say, could I see that one, please? And I'll bring her a second purse that she likes. And she says, could I also see that one, please? And I would reply, which one would you like me to take away? Because what I found is when they had a choice of three, they bought none. And when they had a choice of two, they bought one.
The journalist was amazed and replied, I love that. Two, not three. And too many choices are overwhelming for a buyer. When the article came out, it was picked up in Paris and most of the luxury brands today use this type of sale in their stores. That's the brilliance of Amir from Istanbul. See if you can apply this technique in your work. Comment and subscribe for more content like this. Another Gods of Regret short tip.
Have you heard of the chaos Matrix? So it's basically what do you delegate, what do you do, what do you delete, and what do you do later? I personally use that a lot. So it's like two ends of an axiom, which is like urgent, important. Things that are urgent and important, I do. Important but not urgent, I do later. Not important but urgent, I delegate. Neither important nor urgent, I delete. Question is...
Why the hell are we doing this nonsense? When I think about what do I do, big, important, urgent, irreversible problems, that is where I always need to be. I always ask myself this question at the beginning of each week, which is what's the most important and urgent problem in the company? And then I go work on that. Use this matrix and make your life simple. Stop wasting time on useless things.
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Look, if you want to get absolutely loaded, you got to master these four skills. I don't care who you are or what you're doing right now. If you want that financial freedom, this is the blueprint. Save this for later. Watch it twice. Whatever. Just lock in. Become a problem solver and value king rich people. Don't do nine to fives. We aren't talking about getting a job.
We're talking about building a business or a product that actually fixes something. Find a pain point people have or a vibe they want and solve it. If you provide insane value, you don't just get customers, you get fans who obsess over your brand. Two, stop grinding, start branding. Once you've got the solution, you need eyes on it.
Marketing today is literally just building a personal brand. Just get on your phone, yap about what you're doing, and let people find you. Why would you go door knocking for leads when you can just make a profile and let the leads come to you? It's working smarter, not harder. Three, master the art of sales sales is basically just high level problem solving mixed with human psychology. Yeah, some people use it to manipulate
But if your product actually works and helps people, you're doing them a favor by convincing them to buy it. Learn how people tick, learn how to close, and you can get anyone to buy your stuff. 4. Scale it to the moon.
You need to figure out how to get your product to as many people as possible with the least amount of effort. That's why selling stuff like digital courses is such a cheat code. You build it once and sell it forever. Your only job is to stay visible on social media or through ads. Ask yourself, how do I get this in front of everyone?
Master these four problem-solving, branding, sales, and scaling, and you're set. Focus on smart work, not just grinding until you're burned out. Do that and you're going to be rich. Follow for more.